My husband and I often get asked if we’re done having kids, especially when we’re out with our wonderfully conspicuous four young children. When we respond that no, we aren’t “done,” some tell us we’re crazy, but most people want to know more. To some, we are akin to a circus act, but others are wondering if a family (or growing the one they already have) is possible for them, too.
A recent Pew Research study showed that 44% of adults ages 18-49 don’t intend to have children. It’s a startling percentage. Roughly half of those asked cite lack of interest as their main reason for not having children. The other half cite practical points such as medical, financial or the lack of a partner as their main reason. I’ve met men and women of both groups over the years, and my heart breaks for them all.
Read the rest of this piece over at Our Sunday Visitor.